Many Beautiful Lad!es Can’t Get Married OR Stay In Marriage (See Reasons)

Do you know that majority of wom-en who find it difficult to get married and those who get married but after a short time they are sent away by their husband are ladies who think of themselves as beautiful?
They feel too big and even pretend to be what they are not. It’s complicated! Read this exposé…

Have you heard wom-en complain about that there are no serious me-n to marry these days? According to these wom-en, who are often in their late 20s and 30s, me-n just want to date – not to settle down.
But these ladies fail to understand is that real me-n are very particular when it comes to choosing someone for a serious rel@tionship that could possibly lead to marriage.
A wom@n can be beautiful, intelligent and ambitious, but all these good virtues can be nullified by one or two negative traits. The following are some of the traits affecting such ladies:

1) The ‘Socialite mentality’
The ‘socialite mentality’ is a disease that seems to have afflicted most 20-something year old ladies. Signs of this malady are manifested by sudden realization that they are the ‘hottest’ in their area.
The infected wear skimpy clothes, and capture their ‘amazing’ outfits on android phone and proceed to post these p!ctures on social media for attention.
Ladies, if you want to capture attention and earn the respect of  people, go the Lupita Nyon’go way. Explore your talents, develop your ideas and work relentlessly until you break a record. Then the me-n leading equally successful lives will come for you and have you for keeps.
2) Anti-family
Any responsible M@n holds h!s family with highest regard. He will go out of h!s way to create time for h!s parents and take very good care of them at all cost. Before considering a lady for a serious rel@tionship, a M@n will first try to ascertain h-er view towards family.
If sh-e disrespects h-er parents, lives oblivious of h-er siblings and talk down on people then s-he is considered anti-family. In the gu_y’s mind the lady will make a poor wife..just play with h-er and move on.
There is also a crop of ladies who are so close to their fathers/mothers yet raise ruckus whenever the gu_y wants to spend some quality time with h!s family, especially h!s mother. Trying to compete with a gu_y’s mother for h!s attention is a crazy idea.

3) Lack of ambition
If you wish to have a gu_y consider you for marriage, then you should at least get focused with your life. Get your priorities straight, have ambitions, work towards achieving your goals and take your studies or job seriously. If all your ‘future plans’ happen to be on where the next coolest party is then don’t expect any gu_y to take you seriously.
Practice moderation, striving to be responsible and industrious. Every M@n wants the assurance that the lady he is getting hitched to is hardworking so s-he can effectively run things when he’s not around.

4) Extreme materialism
Since the days of the cave me-n, wom-en only mate with those who can provide and protect their families. However, it’s totally wrong to stick with a gu_y just because he can afford to sustain your expensive lifestyle only to disappear when h!s cash flow recedes.
It’s easy to spot a gold-digger. All sh-e wants to do is hang out in fancy places, buy new cloths, shoes, phones, etc., etc. When you are together, you never get to have any meaningful conversations.
Once a gu_y realizes you are for h!s possessions, he re-strategizes. You become h!s trophy girlfriend. He may buy you a nice dress and shoe, maybe phone, but it ends at that. You can’t be a wife.

5) False sense of importance
Such a lady has a bloated ego and false sense of importance. Sh-e thinks sh-e is doing a gu_y a favor by being with him. He is, therefore, expected to be grateful that he should provide whenever sh-e asks.
Guys, please it’s rather draining to date a lady who is convinced you were sorely created to serve h-er. Sh-e will expect you to drop all your plans and run to h-er side whenever sh-e wants. Since sh-e believes that sh-e can get any M@n on the planet, whenever you f!ght sh-e is inclined to issue ultimatums.

A gu_y who wants to settle down with a lady that will bring peace into h!s life should go for someone who is humble. sh-e should be able to associate well with you, whether you spend on h-er that day on not.
6) Selfishness
When a lady is selfish a real M@n will know; sh-e doesn’t care how much you earn and how much you have to work to earn that money. All sh-e’s concerned about is buy this for me, buy that for me. Such a lady can never be a good wife. Even if sh-e’s dating a married M@n he will soon run away from h-er.
Ladies, over to you. Live right if you want the right M@n to take you serious and keep you as a wife.
– Written by Mark Maina